{"id":505,"date":"2022-03-15T14:53:00","date_gmt":"2022-03-15T11:53:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/?p=505"},"modified":"2023-09-19T10:34:44","modified_gmt":"2023-09-19T07:34:44","slug":"dogan-cuceloglu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/?p=505","title":{"rendered":"Hayat\u0131m\u0131za Dokunan, Hayat\u0131 Anlatan Bir \u0130nsan: Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Kimdir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu, 1938 y\u0131l\u0131nda Mersin’in Silifke il\u00e7esinde do\u011fdu. 11 \u00e7ocuklu bir ailenin en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcyd\u00fc. Kalabal\u0131k ve insanla i\u00e7 i\u00e7e bir ailede b\u00fcy\u00fcmesi sebebiyle \u00e7ocuklu\u011fundan beri g\u00f6zlemler yapmay\u0131 seven Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu, \u0130stanbul \u00dcniversitesi Psikoloji b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne girdi ve psikolog oldu. Mezuniyetinin ard\u0131ndan Illinois \u00dcniversitesi Bili\u015fsel Psikoloji alan\u0131nda doktora yapt\u0131, \u00fclkeye d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra Hacettepe \u00dcniversitesi ve Bo\u011fazi\u00e7i \u00dcniversitesi\u2019nde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Ayr\u0131ca Californiya \u00dcniversitesi ve California Eyalet \u00dcniversitesi’nde g\u00f6rev ald\u0131 ve burada psikoloji alan\u0131na ili\u015fkin \u00f6nemli \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalara kat\u0131ld\u0131. Amerika’n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan T\u00fcrkiye’ye d\u00f6nen ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 psikolog; psikolojinin \u00f6nemli konular\u0131na ili\u015fkin \u00e7e\u015fitli \u00fcniversitelerde, konferanslarda ve seminerlerde sunumlar ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirirken, kitaplar\u0131n\u0131 da yay\u0131mlamaya devam etti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Bize Ne Anlatt\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hayat\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lacak derslerle doluydu; o, bu dersleri ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcre i\u00e7erisinde insanlara aktarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu, ilk olarak bilimsel psikoloji alan\u0131nda yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 kitaplar\u0131yla tan\u0131nmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. T\u00fcrk insan\u0131n\u0131n duygu, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 bilimsel kavramlar i\u00e7inde inceledi. Bu eserlerini; insan\u0131n psikolojisi, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 ve yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131 oda\u011f\u0131nda yazd\u0131. Kitaplar\u0131nda s\u0131k s\u0131k; insan olarak basit\u00e7e ya\u015famaktan, verdi\u011fin s\u00f6zde durmak ve yalan s\u00f6ylememekten, kendin i\u00e7in istedi\u011fini ba\u015fkas\u0131 i\u00e7in de istemekten, kendine yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda do\u011fru<\/p>\n\n\n\n

olmayan\u0131 ba\u015fkas\u0131na yapmamaktan, \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck taslamamaktan bahsetmi\u015ftir. Olaylar\u0131, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, ya\u015fayabileceklerimizi \u00f6rnekleriyle anlatt\u0131 ve fark\u0131ndal\u0131k yaratmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. T\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin ger\u00e7eklerini, de\u011ferlerini \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kararak yapt\u0131 ve kendi hayat\u0131ndan \u00f6rneklerle, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlerle destekledi. Tabii kesinlikle didaktik olmayan bir yorumdu onunki, yol g\u00f6stericiydi daha \u00e7ok… C\u00fccelo\u011flu, mutluluk ile ilgili \u015fu c\u00fcmleleri kurmu\u015ftur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mutluluk<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBir \u00e7ift tatl\u0131 s\u00f6zd\u00fcr, yumu\u015fac\u0131k bir dokunu\u015ftur. Affetmektir, sevmektir, sevilmektir. \u00c7evreye da\u011f\u0131t\u0131lan bir tebess\u00fcmd\u00fcr, bir kahkahad\u0131r mutluluk. Mutluluk elimizde olanlara sevinmek, olmayanlar i\u00e7in ise \u00fcz\u00fclmemektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her zaman bizden daha iyi durumda olanlar\u0131 de\u011fil bizden daha zor durumda olanlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmektir. Birazc\u0131k i\u015fleri ertelemek, hayat\u0131n frenine bas\u0131p birazc\u0131k yava\u015flamak kendimize zaman ay\u0131rmakt\u0131r. Bir \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde ona tebess\u00fcmle yakla\u015fmak ve onu sevmek ve koklamakt\u0131r. Bahar ya\u011fmuru alt\u0131nda y\u00fcr\u00fcmek ve \u0131slanmak, ya\u011fmur sonras\u0131 toprak kokusunu teneff\u00fcs etmektir. E\u015fine veya sevdi\u011fine \u201cseni seviyorum\u201d demek, bir g\u00fczel s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemek, bir tatl\u0131 bak\u0131\u015f kondurmak, bir demet \u00e7i\u00e7ek vermektir. Evlad\u0131na doya doya sar\u0131l\u0131p kokusunu i\u00e7ine \u00e7ekmektir. Bazen bir bardak \u00e7ay yan\u0131nda s\u0131cak bir simit ve peynirdir mutluluk. Mutluluk bir yerde bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Pozitif olmak, hep siyah beyazdan ziyade, di\u011fer renkleri de g\u00f6rebilmektir. Her g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Son g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz olarak bilip t\u00fcm canl\u0131lar\u0131 sevmek, incitmemek, \u00e7evremize g\u00fcven vermektir. Olaylar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda empati yapabilmektir. K\u0131\u015f ortas\u0131nda bile bahar\u0131 ya\u015famak, ya\u015fatmakt\u0131r, mutluluk… Mutluluk aramakla bulunacak bir \u015fey de\u011fildir, onu in\u015fa etmek gerekir.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ard\u0131nda 37 kitap, binlerce seminer ve konferans, binlerce TV ve radyo program\u0131 b\u0131rakan C\u00fccelo\u011flu, 16 \u015eubat 2021\u2019de hayata g\u00f6zlerini yumdu. Yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 kitaplar, verdi\u011fi dersler, s\u00f6yle\u015filer ile say\u0131s\u0131z insana katk\u0131da bulunan C\u00fccelo\u011flu, b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u015fsiz eserler ile yolumuzu ayd\u0131nlatmaya devam edecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Kitaplar\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan \u0130nsana (1991)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan ve Davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 (1992)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u00e7imizdeki \u00c7ocuk (1992)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

‘Mi\u015f’ Gibi Yeti\u015fkinler: Yeti\u015fkin \u00c7ocuklar (1994)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u00e7imizdeki Biz (1996)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130yi D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn Do\u011fru Karar Ver (1998)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sava\u015f\u00e7\u0131 (1999)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018Ke\u015fke\u2019siz Bir Ya\u015fam \u0130\u00e7in \u0130leti\u015fim: \u0130leti\u015fim Donan\u0131mlar\u0131 (2002)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ba\u015far\u0131ya G\u00f6t\u00fcren Aile – S\u0131nav D\u00f6neminde Ana Babal\u0131k (2006)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir Kad\u0131n Bir Ses (2006)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Korku K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc: Ni\u00e7in ‘M\u0131\u015f Gibi’ Ya\u015f\u0131yoruz? (2008)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Onlar Benim Kahraman\u0131m (2009)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan \u0130nsana Sohbetler (2011)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan\u0131 Ararken Damdan D\u00fc\u015fen Psikolog (2013)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ger\u00e7ek \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck (2014)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d6\u011fretmenim Bir Bakar M\u0131s\u0131n?- \u00d6\u011fretmen’in G\u00fcc\u00fc \u00dczerine (2018)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Var M\u0131s\u0131n? (2021)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Geli\u015ftiren Anne-Baba (2021)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kimdir? Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu, 1938 y\u0131l\u0131nda Mersin’in Silifke il\u00e7esinde do\u011fdu. 11 \u00e7ocuklu bir ailenin en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcyd\u00fc. Kalabal\u0131k ve insanla i\u00e7 i\u00e7e bir ailede b\u00fcy\u00fcmesi sebebiyle \u00e7ocuklu\u011fundan beri g\u00f6zlemler yapmay\u0131 seven Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu, \u0130stanbul \u00dcniversitesi Psikoloji b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne girdi ve psikolog oldu. Mezuniyetinin ard\u0131ndan Illinois \u00dcniversitesi Bili\u015fsel Psikoloji alan\u0131nda doktora yapt\u0131, \u00fclkeye d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra Hacettepe \u00dcniversitesi ve Bo\u011fazi\u00e7i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":506,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-505","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kultursanat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/505","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=505"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/505\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1028,"href":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/505\/revisions\/1028"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/506"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=505"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=505"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nuve.com.tr\/NHaber\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=505"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}